But also let me say this: it’s very good and why the hell not. It’s not fair on you, it’s not fair on them, and it’s definitely not fair on me.
Quotes about dating the wrong people
I truly believe that when it doesn’t work out with someone in the present, it is because it is meant to work out with someone else in the future. If you don’t learn that lesson and evolve, you will only face the same issues with each relationship moving forward.
If you want to avoid a lifetime of dating the wrong men, you have to be conscious of the old wounds you need to heal and take action to stop destructive habits and patterns.
If you’re someone who, like me, has been a massive tit about dating in the past: you have to read this. Being single can be lonely and it can be depressing, yes.
If you’re someone who keeps getting curved to absolute hell by people who seemed to like you: you gotta read this. Because you’re a shiny star and it’s time you started acting like it. I don’t know if who you just went on a date with is indeed the love of your life. But being with a person who treats you like you’re a liability whilst you consistently show up for them is even worse.
Perhaps you had an unstable male figure in your life as a child, or your first relationship was one that left you hurt and wounded.
It is possible that you are choosing relationships that repeat the unavailability, rejection or abandonment issues that were familiar in your earliest relationship with the opposite sex.
While your friends see that your relationship is unhealthy, and your rational mind does too, you just can’t seem to get out. “Doing favors for others and treating them well, leads us to value and love them…They do all of the “doing”.
You know deep down inside that the person is not right for you, but make justifications and excuses over and over again. They are the ones waiting on their partner, doing good deeds, buying gifts, etc. So, they are not at all in love or committed.” Before you engage in another act of love, ask yourself what your true intention is.
If you’re someone who loves reading even very stupid words, well then hell, you really must read this. So here’s how to stop making terrible dating mistakes. I don’t know if you’ll get married and buy a Fiat Punto. It’s just easy to forget that when it’s been 109 days since you last had sex and you did an audible moan this morning when the bus driver brushed your hand giving you your change.